Damn, I was going to write something really clever here, with lots of equations and all, then I crunched the numbers and it turned out that Forza's aero-weight is calculated when the car is reversing at 8mph

(and that was using a simple relationship - it would have been worse if I'd started using geometric curves!)
Something tells me I've missed out an ultra-important variable somewhere

What variables are you currently using Spiny?
Im just thinking of the top of my head that if you set a cars springs to 100% SWR (So the cars body weight is taken out of the variables) and then ran the car without the Aero and watched on the telematery how much compression you get on the springs as speed increases then re ran with the full aero and noted the compression values again, this should (In my head anyway) give 2 sets of figures that if you put them on a graph would start at the same point and then get further apart as the speed increases, showing the increased compression on the springs as a result of the downforce being applied... it should then be possible to work out how much downforce is being applied as we know the spring strength and everything else has stayed the same...
Of course I could be completely wrong but just thought I'd throw it out there and see if it sparks anyone elses thoughts into a eureka moment... lol